'[(despite) resilience]...the trauma does not just float away. We hold it. We carry it. We embody it. We just may not know it.'

'...change your approach. Family Constellations is a way... without intellectualising, in a supportive and safe environment...'

'...unacknowledged, shamed and secret members of the family system reverbrate through generations, affecting later members...

Our human messiness is inevitable. We do not necessarily notice ... some compassionate intervention would be useful.

Therapy can help individuals with the disruption... that occurs in families/whanau and households consisting of first and third generations

At heart of Family Constellations are belonging, order, and balance. ... cut offs disrupt..causing big emotions ...hard to come back from

where I'm from, how I came to be a Constellations Facilitator, ...we are ...inevitably 'ready for therapy' and how Constellations work...

Family constellations gets at old, buried, forgotten, unrecognised hitches in your family system...