We are stardust!!

Managers are often not naturally imbued with skills and attributes required for working well and effectively with people they are charged with managing. It becomes an awkward hit and miss affair punctuated by dodgems, deceit, delusions, and ending with anxiety and stress.

'...three women and their somewhat chaotic lives with lovers and mothers and others, we find a Constellation practitioner working in an idyllic Turkish setting.'

How can we better know our parents, their parents and grandparents, and by extrapolation the ones who came before them? Who were they, the dearly loved elders?

Adolescence, the Netflix series, is loaded with trauma coming down the line, and out of the Andrew Tate poisoned air. And more. I'm picking up on just one aspect of family systems here. Belonging.

Stand on the land of your ancestors. Take it in. Feel the influence their place and time has on you now.

'...we can become more resilient and more capable in the face of their imminent death, move through it with more calm and acceptance...'

'...get to the root source of your unhelpful patterns - yes, even you, you wonderful accomplished person'...

'There are inextricable links between human kinship, our kinship with the land (hangout) of our ancestors, and ...our lives and experiences'

‘When you throw a stone into a pond, the pond doesn’t know that it ripples.’

I'm excited about the series of weekday mid-morning workshops that allow women to do their school drop-offs, maybe have a leisurely...

'[(despite) resilience]...the trauma does not just float away. We hold it. We carry it. We embody it. We just may not know it.'

'...change your approach. Family Constellations is a way... without intellectualising, in a supportive and safe environment...'

'...unacknowledged, shamed and secret members of the family system reverbrate through generations, affecting later members...

Our human messiness is inevitable. We do not necessarily notice ... some compassionate intervention would be useful.

replace old, buried, forgotten, unruly hitches in your family system, get fresh perspectives and peace

Therapy can help individuals with the disruption... that occurs in families/whanau and households consisting of first and third generations

At heart of Family Constellations are belonging, order, and balance. ... cut offs disrupt..causing big emotions ...hard to come back from

...shame do(es) not go away with time. ...in a safe context we need to speak of it, for someone to hear and hold space... without judgement.